All in Community

Out of Deference

Can you imagine a society where everyone looked out for each other... even for a stranger? Where everyone put aside their own agenda for the good of the other? Can you imagine that happening for even a few seconds? What would it take? Well, believe it or not, it happens every day... and Tony was reminded of that last night.

Practicing “Life in Hopeful Motion”

When we first decided to create Pilgrim Lost and wanted to express exactly what this community would be about, we settled quickly and easily on the phrase: “Life in Hopeful Motion.” In today’s blog, Tony shares how he has been continuing to reimagine how his Hopeful Motion might be expressed - from his morning practice of ‘Greeting the Sun’ to choosing to be more aware of the intention others can see as he fights to overcome suspicion of the ‘other.’

Friendship Happens

In today’s blog, Tony offers some more insight around the important and timely topic of peacemaking. He specifically addresses the essence of friendship and invites us to offer the open door found in the language of journey, exploration and curiosity, while seeking common ground with others not in ideas, but in affection.


Box O' Truth

Check out Tony’s latest blog on something we can all identify with - the folly of comparison. He shares how we can move away from this folly into mutuality and he does it in less than 50 words… almost…

Open Hands

On Day 5 of the 100 Day Project I sit down to illustrate ‘wait’ and I am confronted by all those fears. So much of my existence I feel I am waiting to find that thing that will finally make me the artist, the friend, the daughter, the girlfriend that will be … good enough. I have been fighting those voices a lot lately. They have been exacerbated and magnified by this quarantine. This time of slowing… this time of sitting with... this time of waiting.

Kind versus Nice: an etymological and practical reflection

 On a recent podcast, Kari and I discussed the essence of being kind.  The conversation was inspired by an encounter I had with a monger of Sasquatch lore during a walk about Portland.

 Since the pod’s publication, there has been a steady stream of comments and side conversations with fellow lost-pilgrims about the distinction between being “nice” and being “kind.”

Some themes have surfaced.